What I have learned so far:

Here is a list of life lessons that I wrote in a journal at the lofty old age of 25. Reading it now that I am 30, I have to say- it's a great list. I must admit that even though I wrote this at 25, none of this was fully realized until now. In fact, even now I have a hard time remembering these little pearls of wisdom. REMEMBER REMEMBER REMEMBER! That's my new mantra.

1. If you act like a victim you will be treated like one.

2. Instead of being frustrated about what you don't have, be thankful for what you do.

3. It's good to look up to people who inspire you, but do not make a habit of comparing yourself. Comparison is the thief of joy.

4. Check, check, and TRIPLE CHECK the details. It's the little things that kill.

5. Things do not change...unless you do.

6, Think before you speak. Don't speak if you have nothing to say. Listen, listen, listen.

7. Apologize when necessary. Don't apologize if it means sacrificing self respect!

8, Where there's a will there's a way.

9. If you allow someone to help you, make sure that you are clear about their intentions.

10. This and everything else, is all temporary. Every. Thing.